Personally, I would say where whatever you’re comfortable in! If you’re still not sure or don’t like that answer, try each of those things with the top and jacket you plan to wear and pick whatever looks the best. Also, search the femme!eleven tag for ideas.
Hair? Eleven has floppy hair and usually an extreme side part. Sooo… part it on the side and keep it keep it floppy? If you have long bangs, you can have floppy hair and still have it up in the back. But you want want to keep is long.
I feel like when you feminize the costume, you’re already deviating from screen-accuracy. So you can do whatever you feel comfortable in and whatever you think looks good. Just keep the character recognizable.
Anyone else have suggestions?
How I make decisions when I’m femme-ing The Doctor is I think “How would they dress if they were a woman? Their personaility is X as a man how would that personality translate?”
For my eleven that worked out to be a short black skirt (i wanna upgrade it to a specially built pencil skirt when i have time.) and black giraffe print tights.